Promising Stability, Fidelity to Monastic Life and Obedience

At the time of profession, the monastic makes three vows: stability, fidelity to monastic life and obedience. These signs of monastic commitment color our daily life.

• Stability: Our promise of stability assures that I will be present long term--I will be there when things are good and when times get a little rough. I commit to be around no matter how hard things get or how messy life can become. I can also count on others to be there also. It is part of what goes into making a life commitment to one another. It gives me the freedom to grow and permission to be vulnerable to others. It gives me the assurance that those I am committed to will be there day after day.


• Fidelity to monastic life: This vow calls forth daily conversion in my life. If I am to be faithful to this new way of being, I need to work at it every single day. I need to continually explore ways that allow me to see God's presence in Scripture, in creation, in those around me, in daily life. I have to be open to the many possibilities and opportunities which this faithfulness calls forth in me.


• Obedience: I have to be willing to put down my own ideas, my own ways of doing things and be open to the wisdom of others. These others can be my Prioress, other community members, or the community as a whole. I need to develop my listening skills so that I can hear beyond the words. It is important to be able to listen to the care and concern of others, to be able to hear their encouragement or words of advice.

These three promises are aspects of our daily life in the monastery. They are also values that can be an important part of daily life in general. In families, offices, teams and classrooms, the freedom to grow, commitment to core values and adherence to the wisdom of the group are essential.

How am I living out my commitments today?

Sr. Catherine, OSB