The abbot's table must always be with guests and travelers. Whenever there are no guests, it is within his right to invite any of the brothers he wishes. RB80.56.1-2
Growing up, we always had assigned places at the dinner table. It was partly a function of practicality and convenience (Grandma always sat closest to the stove and serving area because she was the one who helped get seconds and cleared the table.) Our parents were always at the end of the table. The kids were placed so that those who might fight at table were separated by an adult.
Benedict has a similar plan for the abbot's table. The abbot should have a place at the table with the guests. On the occasions when there are no guests, community members may be invited to sit with the leader. There should always be someone sitting at the tables among the table to help keep order. Benedict emphasized interaction among the members so that good relationships could be fostered.
Sr. Catherine, OSB
Thursday, December 9, 2010
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