Guests for the Holidays

As the Christmas draws closer, it is time to visit hospitality again as St. Benedict saw it.

Growing up our family would often host various relatives for the holidays especially those from out of town. After all, we were the southern California family--who were supposed to have balmy weather for the winter holidays...or at least better weather than our relatives in Ohio, Texas or North Carolina. We were also very accommodating about fitting as many people as necessary into our home. My family functioned under the premise that surely room for one more can be found somewhere.

I have many memories of those times...and for the most part my family enjoyed the company during the holidays. We were very flexible. I often wonder what would have happened if our family had had an offensive guest.

Benedict talks today Chapter 61 about visiting monastics. Before the days of Holiday Inn or Motel 6, monasteries provided shelter for travelers. Benedict understood this and made provisions for them. He also suggests that not everyone that appears at the door should be a long term guest. Benedict suggests that those who are overly critical or excessive in their demands should be invited to find other lodging.

Sr. Catherine, OSB