Exclusion for Faults

If a brother is found to be stubborn or disobedient or proud, if he grumbles or in any way despises the holy rule and defies the orders of his seniors, he should be warned twice privately by the seniors in accord with our Lord’s injunction (Matt 18:15–16). RB80.23.1-2

Chapters 23-30 of the Rule of Benedict are part of the disciplinary code in the Rule. Since the community is human, there are bound to be faults. There needs to be a way of dealing with wrongdoing, bad attitudes and failure to comply.

These opening verses set the tone for Benedict's approach to faults. Benedict realized that faults would be a part of community, or actually any group or team. So how are they to be handled? Benedict seems to be focusing more on the underlying attitudes of the person rather than the actual deeds. If the attitude is correct then the actions will follow.

Benedict realized that with an attitude problem forcefulness or public sanctions are not always the best approach at first. He suggests speaking privately to the person to allow an opportunity for a change. This allows the person to modify their own behavior before it becomes a public issue which can be both hurtful and embarrassing. Take care of the matter privately.

Thinking back on the times that I have needed to change my disposition or attitude to become a better community member, I have always been grateful for the times when I have been offered the opportunity to change on my own once I have the awareness.

Sr. Catherine, OSB